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    The Gift of a Full Belly

    My maternal grandmother was poor most of her life. Born of Italian immigrants during World War I, quit school after the eighth grade around the time of the Great Depression to help care for her younger siblings, and widowed two days after her 44th birthday. She never had much financially. But she could cook and bake like no one’s business, and she cooked and baked for the family she loved so dearly her entire life. From her I learned that one of the greatest gifts you can give someone you love is a full belly. Her homemade pizza and apple pie…priceless.

    Perspective

    I had the good fortune of growing up in a close-knit Italian-American family. We had the Sunday pasta dinners at 2:00 in the afternoon at my grandparents’ house every week with my family, my aunt and uncle and my cousins. My grandfather sat at the head of the table, slicing the crusty bread and passing around his homemade wine. There were olives and escarole and fried eggplant. To this day, the smells of fresh basil and romano cheese take me back to that table. Those were the best of times.

    The Original Foodies

    My Sicilian grandfather ate tripe and cow tongue and ox tail decades before anyone dreamed up the phrase “nose to tail” or “whole animal cooking.” My Italian great-grandmother bought live chickens from a shop on Penn Avenue in Garfield in the morning to have for dinner that night, long before “farm to table” meant anything. Italian immigrants were curing meats and making wine in their Bloomfield basements since they arrived from Ellis Island. And immigrants like them from other countries, who arrived at the turn of the 20th century and after, did the same. They were the original foodies, but out of necessity and tradition not out of lifestyle.

    Food Brings People Together

    I’ve heard it said before that Italians place such an emphasis on food because dinner is the one time of day when the whole family is together. Perhaps that isn’t as common of a notion as it used to be with the ever increasing demands on people’s time—people working longer hours, children rushing off to soccer practice or play dates—but it is true. Food brings people together.